Wednesday night we looked at Anger in the "Sins We Tolerate". There's quite a bit to be said about anger and it really is something that easily creeps into our lives. So here's a glance at what we looked at:
Anger — the emotion
of instant displeasure on account of something evil that presents itself to our
view. In itself it is an original susceptibility of our nature, just as love
is, and is not necessarily sinful. It may, however, become sinful when
causeless, or excessive, or protracted (Matt. 5:22; Eph. 4:26; Col. 3:8). As
ascribed to God, it merely denotes his displeasure with sin and with sinners
(Ps. 7:11).
ANGER -
The word normally used in the Bible to refer to rage, fury, and indignation. In
most instances, anger is considered to be wrong. Psalm 37:8 (nlt), for example, commands: “Stop
your anger! Turn from your rage!” Jesus paralleled anger with murder when he
said, “If you are angry with someone, you are subject to judgment!” (Mt 5:22, nlt)—just as if the person had actually
committed the murder he felt in his angry heart. Ephesians 4:31 and Colossians
3:8 both list anger, along with bitterness, wrath, malice, and slander, as
attitudes that Christians must rid themselves of once and for all. In his list
of attributes for a bishop or pastor of a church, the apostle Paul said that a
Christian leader should not be prone to anger, that is, easily provoked (Ti
1:7).
“Anger is a universal problem, prevalent in
every culture, experienced by every generation. No one is isolated from its
presence or immune from its poison. It permeates each person and spoils our
most intimate relationships. Anger is a given part of our fallen human fabric.
Sadly this is true even in our Christian homes and churches.” Robert Jones, Uprooting Anger
“In facing up to our anger, we need to
realize that no one else causes us to be angry. Someone else’s words or actions
may become the occasion of our anger, but the cause lies deep within us –
usually our pride, or selfishness, or desire to control.” Jerry Bridges, Respectable Sins, pg. 122
“We can choose how we will respond to the
sinful actions of others toward us.” Jerry
Bridges, Respectable Sins, pg. 123
“I believe that many Christians live in
denial about their anger. They consciously experience the flare-up of negative
thoughts and emotions toward someone who has displeased them, but they do not
indentify this as anger, especially as sinful anger. They focus on the other
person’s wrongdoing and justify their own reaction.” Jerry Bridges, Respectable Sins, pg. 128
Matthew 5:21-26 (NKJV)
21 “You
have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of
the judgment.’ 22 But
I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in
danger of the judgment. And whoever says to his brother, ‘Raca!’ shall be in
danger of the council. But whoever says, ‘You fool!’ shall be in danger of hell
fire. 23 Therefore if you bring your
gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against
you, 24 leave your gift there before
the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come
and offer your gift. 25 Agree
with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your
adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and
you be thrown into prison. 26 Assuredly,
I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last
penny.
Romans 12:17-21 (NKJV)17 Repay
no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. 18 If it is possible, as much as depends on
you, live peaceably with all men. 19 Beloved,
do not avenge yourselves, but rather
give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance
is Mine, I will repay,” says
the Lord. 20 Therefore “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is
thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his
head.” 21 Do
not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Some other verses that can be looked at concerning anger are as follows:
Job
5:2, Proverbs 12:16, Proverbs 14:29, Proverbs 15:1, Proverbs 16:32,
Proverbs
19:11, Proverbs 19:19, Proverbs 21:19, Proverbs 22:24-25,
Proverbs 25:28, Proverbs
27:3, Proverbs 29:8-9, Proverbs 29:11, Psalm
37:8, Ecclesiastes 7:9, Matthew 5:21-26,
Romans 12:17-21, Ephesians
4:26-27, Ephesians 4:31-32, Colossians 3:8-13, 1
Timothy 3:2-3, Titus 1:7,
James 1:19
The point to be made with anger is although you may feel you have a given "right" to be angry in situations more than likely you don't have that right at all. It really is an issue that many of us need to be asking God to show us and soften us in the areas that anger exists. If you have any thoughts feel free to comment. You also can join us Sunday morning for the follow up with this.